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#12: the mayor of friendship
#12: the mayor of friendship
May 17, 2026
introducing the other kinds of intimacy questionnaire

#11: filipinos against ICE 
#11: filipinos against ICE 
May 5, 2026
advice for hosting your own fundraiser or political event

#10: elaborate commitments
#10: elaborate commitments
April 12, 2026
on writing something new everyday with a friend

#9: is it too late to change your life?
#9: is it too late to change your life?
March 29, 2026
a dispatch from the other side

#8: when you become of a place, however frustratingly
#8: when you become of a place, however frustratingly
March 15, 2026
on fickle badges of honor, plus: intimate links! a relationship rec! poetry!

#7: the platonic six-month-stand who never went away
#7: the platonic six-month-stand who never went away
March 1, 2026
on being in your 50s and living with a dear friend

#6: a long-term relationship with a country that's not your own
#6: a long-term relationship with a country that's not your own
February 8, 2026
an interview with author rafe bartholomew

#5: new voice, same me?
#5: new voice, same me?
January 11, 2026
on listening for your old self

#4: filipino! college! basketball!
#4: filipino! college! basketball!
December 14, 2025
is obsession always about longing?

#3: queers against ICE
#3: queers against ICE
November 16, 2025
on the power of "regular ass faggots and queers and lesbians and straight people," plus resources to protect your community against ICE

#2: asking about desire & asian identity
#2: asking about desire & asian identity
November 2, 2025
on "love me long time" by dorcas tang

#1: rules for short-term intimacy
#1: rules for short-term intimacy
October 19, 2025
a subject matter expert speaks

death to the primacy
death to the primacy
October 6, 2025
an intro post

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