Hello there! 👋
Living in the suburbs, and working from home, it has dawned on me how isolating it can be. Not yet integrated into the local community, I don’t have neighbourhood friends to hang out with or go to the pub to. I spend a lot of time alone in my office or walking/running around the local nature trails. In the evenings I get a few minutes of face time with my girls. But since they are teenagers, they quickly retreat to their rooms to Tiktok and their own online friends.
Once a week I will go to Z-Space to socialize in person, which is always a blast. I love that community, but it is currently a 70 minute commute to get there. There’s an old mate living on the other side of the Port Mann bridge who goes on coffee walks with me about once a month which I value. But most of my socializing is online: virtual coffees, online TTRPG, that kinda thing.
At the opposite extreme, this month I had the most amazing in-person meeting, reconnecting with someone I hadn’t seen since 2004. I was hanging off an embassy fence in Tehran, taking photos of the crowd of 40,000 “anti-America protestors”.† He recognized the Canadian flag stitched on my bag and called out to me in fluent English. It turned out that he grew up in Vancouver.