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Russian Accents Fascination: An Origin Story
April 19, 2026
Ivan Drago, as played by Dolph Lundgren in Rocky IV I. InceptionI accidently became a lover of Russian accents. It started in high school, when a boy I was...
NSFW: The Indestructible Male Hero
April 19, 2026
The Floor Polisher by Pytor Konchalovsky (1946) A few years back, my dear friend Christa and I did two podcast episodes devoted to Romance Novel Tropes. You...
arrest the president
December 2, 2025
The president is a giant pile of shit, and has employed a gang of dogshit lackeys to do his evil, since he gets winded after putting on his hair every...
A Year Later
August 21, 2025
my dad as a teenager in Syria It’s been a year since my dad died. It’s been a strange day, especially when I hold it against last year. Last year, it was...
The next half
October 23, 2024
My grief over losing my father has made writing a problem. Writing, words. Stories, even. It’s this: Telling the story creates a distance in me from the guts...
Remembering my dad
September 9, 2024
memories shared at his funeral, September 7, 2024
The Tyranny of the Tail
July 22, 2023
expect no rational sequence here
Write: The Poem as Portal
March 26, 2021
on the inciting image
Wear: Ruffles, Rick-Rack and Frippery
March 11, 2021
on style that is literally "extra"
Write: A World Built on Names, Part I
February 25, 2021
how character names create the stuff of fiction
Write: Reading Habits and Handrails
January 7, 2021
or, how romance novels can help you write fiction