Modern computing, as it has generally enabled more random, unqualified, delusional or malicious people to discuss things they do not actually understand which they then put on the internet, to be spread to as many people as is possible, it has at the same time advanced the isolation of individuals, allowing them virtual, if hollow interaction with others, and a ready descent into a rabbit hole of personalized misinforming content.

Black people are particularly susceptible to this problem because of a general poor formal and informal education, and poor cultural habits as to how to deal with information, as seen in things like poor reasoning abilities, and the seriousness with which they take myths and superstitions.

Black people are also very culturally childishly transgressive. Well-steeped in unnecessary and deliberate antagonism. Opposing everything for no cogent reason, but whatever random reason you end up making up is cool. Doing and saying transgressive stuff is cool and or funny. It shows you are a cool person who doesn't take anything particularly seriously. You really are just cool like that.

It is because of factors like these that the online black gender wars are a thing.

Individual people are not 'smart', do not and can not think for themselves and decide what to do or how to behave no matter what liberal democratic people tell you. People almost always default to the culture (generally acceptable behaviors) of their society.

The problems on both sides are fundamentally a consequence of the failure of black culture. If black men are violent, uneducated and unrefined, it is because the culture they come from encourages it. The same thing is true of black women with any popular stereotypes.

True to black cultural transgressiveness, both sides often talk down with the most horrible possible words to the other, as to the things they consider ridiculous which the other side does.

In reality, the difference in expressed behaviors and life outcomes on both sides is simply a result of biological differences in gender. If black men are more susceptible to violent expressions and have poorer school-finishing rates, it is because of the proclivities of men based on their genetics, and if black women are prone to obesity or abuse kids, it is similarly because of biological reasons.

The expressed behaviors of both sides are down primarily to the deplorableness of black culture.

If you reversed the genders and put the consciousness of women in men, and men in women, the black women who are now men would have the same proclivities, and as would the black men.

So neither side is inherently better than the other. They grow up with the same debilitating culture which is horrible. The difference in apparent specific behaviors is a consequence of biological differences in gender.

We can see this for example in some behavior common to both genders, like the aforementioned transgressiveness. Or outward-lookingness, as in the associated prestige of interracial coupling. And in other things like blame-shifting, accusing the other gender of being unattractive compared to some other racial group, and in general, pedestalizing the other gender of other racial groups.

The solution to this is coming together to permanently solve these cultural problems as a community. Unfortunately, black culture is fundamentally antagonistically transgressive and anti-coordination, a meta problem which makes everything difficult.

Black people never want to hear any cogent explanations for why things are the way they are. They do not enjoy coherently attempting to understand how things work. They do not want to do anything tangible to solve the problems either. The preferred way to deal with everything is mindless transgressive behavior.

This is why antagonistically transgressive "go where you are loved" is increasingly popular and acceptable aphorism. There is little attempt to solve communal problems and chart a fine course forward. Instead, the repeated solution is a permanent split in which either side desperately pathetically seeks romantic attention from non-black people, further worsening black dignity.

Black people are low-IQ low-intellectual people who enjoy committing crimes, may be obese and are loud and unrefined. The vast majority of black people live in sub-Saharan Africa, disease-ridden and in accommodations barely above huts.

American media, which dominates the entire world makes all of this very very clear.

Black people are very low-status people and black people seeking non-black partners are judged accordingly. While the individual attributes of a person does affect their interracial desirability, the overall low-status of their people (blacks) is ultimately inescapable and will always stare them in the face.

This is the way people and societies have always worked. The modern liberal attempt to pretend like people can exist solely as individuals and be judged in that way is false and will never work.

White people have been kings of our world in the past couple of centuries when they dominated every other group in lots of ways. They are thus very high-status and lots of nonwhite people are desperate to acquire a white partner for themselves. Practically everyone knows this.

If this is true about white people, why wouldn't the reverse be true of black people since practically everyone knows in the same way that black people are at the very bottom of the racial hierarchy?

Black people — as low status people — seeking non-black partners are at a huge disadvantage. Even worse, the fact that they are seeking out of blackness is a blotch on blackness.

With every single black person seeking non-black interracial coupling, blackness takes more and more hit. It is a fleeing from already low-status blackness. It is like if people were trying to sell an already declining stock. The very fact of their intention to sell only ensures further and further decline in value. In the same way, every single black interracial coupling worsens black dignity.

Black people in interracial relationships experience horrible race-specific indignities which only happen within their interracial relationships and wouldn't exist otherwise, whether or not they are willing to admit this to themselves or to other people.

Aside from horrible race-specific indignities in interracial coupling, and maybe they are willing to persevere in their personal relationships with nonblacks, is this sort of person — who willingly abandons their own people and is fine with having little less dignity than everyone else around them — the sort of person we want passing their genes to the future?

And that is not to talk about all of the various complexities that result from the existence of bi/multi-racial people.

The correct solution to all of this is the community coming together, solving their complicated cultural problems and maintaining endogamy.