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Aug. 10, 2026, 6:40 p.m.

Kindergarten Eve

Tomorrow is the first day of kindergarten. Here is everything that happened first.

Jem DeSanti

August 10, 2026

Tomorrow is the first day of kindergarten. I am writing this the day before, which means I have spent the last month in a particular kind of low-grade anticipatory state that anyone who has navigated a child's major transition will recognize — equal parts logistical preparation and emotional weather you can't quite name until it's already passing.

When the Library has a huge Carnatorus.

In the absence of being able to fully control what's coming, I did what I always do: I made things, found things, went places, dressed up.

Warm enough to wear a Slip Dress!

I made a point this month to document outfits on the days I was off-duty, which started as a small personal practice and has quietly evolved into a fashion-specific Substack I'm just beginning to dabble in — more on that as it takes shape. One of those days sent me to Crossroads, where I sold a stack of things I'd stopped reaching for and came home with a couple of new-to-me tops. The rose print dress was a Goodwill find from earlier in the year that had been waiting patiently for weather warm enough to justify it. It finally got its moment.

Let’s go back to 2006 Flickr.
Front row with my best one.
Obligatory Photo before the show.

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