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Aug. 23, 2026, 3:54 p.m.

Fig, Vanilla, and a Question About the Internet

A rat bag at the farmer's market, a broken rake, and a family who lives without internet in the house.

Jem DeSanti
The Caffè - Downtown Oakland
My Writing Setup / Research.

I found a new spot to write this week. The Caffè in downtown Oakland, a beautiful little place only a ten minute walk from Otis's school, which meant I could get a matcha, get an hour of real writing done, and still make pickup without rushing. I've been using that window for the fashion Substack I’ve been dabbling in.

My Sewing Label collection for making for others.
Start of construction for the top of the costume.
Taped up - I want to papier-mâché it but I need Otis so I can cut the holes first.

I also spent some time this week just cleaning up and organizing my sewing label stash, which turned into the real kickoff for Otis's Halloween costume. Ayrn saved me a box for exactly this purpose, and I'm building him a Lord Garmadon costume, which has been a solid three plus month obsession of his at this point. No sign of it fading, so I'm fully committing.

Amazing Handmade crochet Rat BAG!

Saturday morning I made it to the farmer's market at Lake Merritt for the first time since moving here. I got a fig and vanilla matcha latte that might be one of the best things I've had all year, and then spotted something out in the wild that stopped me completely: a crocheted bag shaped like a rat, tail and all, slung over someone's shoulder like it was the most normal accessory in the world. I had to photograph it so I could go home and hunt down the pattern. I'm thinking of making one for my favorite little girl as one of her birthday presents from auntie, because if anyone deserves a rat purse, it's her.

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