Hello. When I was a teenager I used to really hate this time of year; in the early years I’d only see Mum for a few hours because she wasn’t well enough to go through more than cooking and eating Christmas lunch, and then the people I ended up with after she died approached it with an almost alien sense of joy, with their own strange traditions that I didn’t want to take part in. I was proud to be a bit Scroogey.
These days, if I’m asked, I’ll ramble on about Christmas being a moment of light in darkness — how it’s a time for us to see family (however that looks for us), to get a little rest and share good food and company and count our blessings in a world gone mad. And goodness, what a mad year this has been; the background stink of things are getting worse has been harder to ignore, as the world lurches rightwards, gets covered in AI-generated slop, and turns a blind eye to horrors in the Middle East.
Every time I sit down to write this little annual good-content-year-in-review thing the weirder it feels to do; the miserable world outside is a stark contrast to the new friends, new activies, proper holiday, love, support and service of my own year. I wake up every day and get through it, intact, despite everything, because I live in a “safe” part of the world in comfort and with luxuries, even though things feel darker than ever. And yet at Christmas, we face the dark world around us and dare, just for a couple days, to surround ourselves with the light we have — and what a lovely thing that is.
I hope you and yours have found some light this Christmas, and you have a peaceful 2025.