Hello,

November is a lot. The clocks go back and it's dark by five. There's an election on the 3rd. Then Thanksgiving, with the relative you've been quietly dreading since Labor Day. It's the month everyone gets on your nerves, so that's what this letter is about.

This month's experiment: the other explanation

Once a day, when someone annoys you, come up with one other explanation for what they did. One that isn't "because they're a jerk."