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October 31, 2025

Samhain - honouring our past selves 🍂

and making space for winter nourishment.

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Samhain - honouring and grieving our past selves, making space for nourishment through winter.
brought to you by Tender Being with Harriet
Dear ,
 
In this Samhain newsletter you'll find: 
  • Samhain Reflections & Prompts
  • Ways to work with me in the coming months
  • Some recommendations from me of stuff I've been learning from, enjoying and some actions you can take
Samhain - Releasing our previous selves
 
I like to share often that there are themes in the Celtic Wheel Festivals, and also I believe that we can find inspiration for new themes and reflections as we encounter each one (some might argue against this which is fair enough! but this has been my approach and I am delighted that you're here exploring it with me).

 This year, as I came to reflect on some of the common themes of Samhain (end of the harvest, honouring ancestors, reflect on the past, prepare for the dark), it was particularly the honouring of the past and the mix of the endings and beginnings.

The trees releasing their leaves always feels like a beautiful invitation for letting go of the external efforts that drive our energy away from who and where we truly want to be.

But as we release, we could understand that in some ways, we are letting a past version of ourselves go. Letting go of the version of ourselves that cared about X or worried about Y or was trying to do Z. And in doing so, we can make space for the winter process of nourishing and supporting a more aligned version of ourselves. 

 
So my invitation is to write a letter to this past version of yourself

Because release isn't necessarily easy. Letting go can be hard. 

And because finding self compassion at this time of year is so deeply needed. And through finding more self compassion, we are more able to find compassion for others around us. 

We aren't letting go because of wrongness. Past versions of us weren't wrong, they were doing what they felt they needed in the space that they were in.

We can take some time to honour those versions of ourselves. To send them love and thank them for the ways they tried to protect us. And allow them to be released as we make space for the new. 

You can take this invitation in whatever way feels right for you. I'll offer some prompts below in case they feel helpful. 

🍂 I understand why...

🍂 I am grateful for the way you...

🍂 I no longer need... 

I'd truly love to hear how you get on - you can reply directly to this email and chat to me!

If you want to join us in our Community Membership space - The Mycelium, this is available on a 'pay what you can' basis - more details below. 
There are a few ways you can work with me in the coming months -  
 
🌿 The Mycelium Community Membership

The Mycelium is now established and establishing roots on The Portal. 
 
The Mycelium includes:
🍄 Monthly Home Practice Invitation
🍄 Monthly Community Connection Session
🍄 Celtic Wheel Events
🍄 Private Podcast 
🍄 Community Space


The Membership will be available on a 'pay what you can' basis. There are three tiers including a free option for anyone who needs it.

We will be meeting this Saturday for our Samhain Event - if you'd like to join us, we'd love to see you then. 

You can sign up using the link, or if you need a free space, or have any questions then simply reply to this email and let me know! 

 
🌿 121 coaching and/or Resilience Toolkit spots available

I currently have one space for working with me 121. You can read more about my 121 work here. This might be coaching or it might be 121 Resilience Toolkit. If you'd be interested let me know by replying to this email, or you can book a chat to see if it's the right fit here.

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I also have space for a FREE offer of support via my Tender Little Beings work (which you can check out using the link, but I won't share here because I know that's not the mailing list you have signed up for and may not be relevant and/or appropriate.) 

 

Join The Mycelium
Learn more about working with me 121
Tender Little Beings FREE support
My Recommendations 
 
These aren't intended as a reading / to do list - just a little insight into the stuff I'm exploring and an invitation to join me if any of it peaks your interest! 

Here are my recommendations for this newsletter:

✍️ Substack - When will the lion concern himself
The brilliant Julia Doubleday who writes under 'The Gauntlet' on Substack has shared another great (and reasonably short) article about recent memes about post-covid memory loss and our cultural denial of the ever-growing body of research and anecdotal evidence.


📺 TV - Riot Women, BBC Iplayer
Fair warning that this is written by Sally Wainwright (creator of Happy Valley and many other brilliant shows) so there is a lot of distress and trauma for many characters (CW for theme of suicide from the beginning) BUT it's also so BEAUTIFUL. I really truly enjoyed this show so much, and can't stop singing the songs either. I highly highly recommend it, if you feel like you're in a place to watch it.  

✉️ Donate
I'm going to share the same link again to ask for donations to Esam and his family, as the 'ceasefire' has not been upheld by Israel, let alone the fact that their home was destroyed and they have nothing. The situation for them and other families is really desperate. I created a reel about them that you can watch here and you can donate to them directly here.


✍️ Petition
Save the painted wooly bats
Introduce Prostate cancer screenings for all at risk
UN: Ban autonomous weapons
Tender Being Website
Thank you so much for your support
 
🌱 It's an honour to journey together as we cross from season to season 🌱
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