Find your glimmers
Have you heard of glimmers? It’s a relatively new term was coined by Deb Dana, in her 2018 book The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy. Glimmers are the opposite of...
On walking and the changing nature of self care
I had a couple of revelations this week. I saw a tiktok where someone described their restful time as letting their brain be unregulated a bit. They spoke...
Working with your bullshit, not against it
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5 years
The official SCB discord is open! Sign up here to join a community working on self care: https://discord.gg/B3hF5X3ZyA On 23rd June, it’ll be 5 years since I...
Sometimes it's not that deep
Feeling your feelings will always bring some learning, but sometimes that learning is...'oh. Those feelings make sense, I don't need to act on them.', which can leave you feeling adrift a bit.
Comfort zones
We often think of comfort zones as only something to be avoided if we need to grow, but I think we need a more nuanced take, and a comfort zone is something to be strived for.
It's Mental Health Awareness Month
And it was Mental Health Awareness Week in the UK this month. Here's why I've not written about it (until now)
When empathy is difficult
Figuring out where you're blocked from empathy can be an interesting exercise
Plan for bad days on your good days
This sounds obvious, and it is, but it's also a surprisingly powerful exercise
On finding and choosing joy
It can be hard to choose/find joy, because the fallout can be exhausting
Working with your bullshit
Being kind doesn't mean going easy on yourself. It means knowing yourself and working with yourself, not against yourself.
Accepting where I am
Acceptance of whereI am in my mental health journey, and what that means for me now
On writing
I'm writing a book! Because apparently a weekly email newsletter isn't enough writing for me... (this is a free version of the newsletter, please subscribe to support if you like my work!)
Empathy is something to be practiced
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Free sneak peek: Empathy, boundaries, and resilience
This is a sneak peak at a paywalled post, originally posted 2nd March. It's one I love, and it's a really good example of what you'll get every 2 weeks if you upgrade to a paid subscription
Challenging in the counselling or coaching relationship
Challenging is a really interesting skill in the toolbox of person-centred counselling and coaching
scraps #2 - Gratitude journaling
This is a free series of scraps of things I wrote that never found a home. I'm proud of them, but they didn't fit into what I was doing at the time. So I'm sharing them here.
Empathy, boundaries, and resilience
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Why I cut contact with my bio-fam
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Shame, motivation, and moving through it
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