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August 27, 2026

Issue 35: Smarter by Thursday

Smarter by Thursday — Issue 35

Issue 35 · week of August 24, 2026

Smarter by Thursday

One practical AI win, every week. No jargon required.

By Dr. Rowan Hayes · Estimated read time: 6 minutes

This week we’re looking at two very down-to-earth problems: **getting your home back under control with a spring cleaning checklist** and **giving better feedback to a team member without overthinking every word**. Both matter for the same reason: your time and energy are finite. If an AI can help you think more clearly, plan faster, and say what you mean without three days of drafting and dreading, that is worth learning.

Try at least one before Sunday. That is the whole assignment.

Use Case 1 of 2

Use Case 1: Spring Cleaning Using an AI-Created Checklist

On a rainy Saturday in late August, around 4:30 pm, Denise finally admitted defeat. She’s 54, works full-time in HR, and lives in a perfectly normal three-bedroom house that somehow feels 20% too full all the time.

She’d spent the day doing what she calls “whack-a-mole cleaning”: unloading the dishwasher, starting laundry, opening a closet, getting overwhelmed, closing the closet, scrolling her phone, and then feeling guilty. Her husband was away visiting his brother, the kids were out of the house, and she had told herself, “This is the weekend I get ahead.”

Instead, she had three half-folded piles of clothes, a sticky kitchen floor, and a vague headache.

What bothered her wasn’t just the mess. It was the mental load. Every room seemed to come with its own invisible to-do list: the dusty ceiling fan in the bedroom, the mystery containers in the freezer, the bathroom drawer that refuses to close properly. She could feel all those tasks pressing on her, but not in any useful order. She kept thinking, “If someone would just tell me what to do, step by step, I could do it.”

That’s exactly where AI can help - not by cleaning, but by turning a vague cloud of “I should really…” into a clear, realistic checklist that fits your actual life.

Here is the exact prompt to use:

Copy and paste this into ChatGPT or Claude:

Paste this into your AI assistant (ChatGPT, Claude, Perplexity, etc.), then fill in the bracketed details with your own information.

I want you to act as a practical home-organizing coach.

Create a realistic, room-by-room spring cleaning plan for my home, in the form of clear checklists I can follow.

Here are the details of my home and situation: - Home type: [e.g., 3-bedroom single-family house, about 1,800 square feet] - People who live here: [e.g., me (54), my husband (56), one teenager, one dog] - Rooms/areas: [e.g., kitchen, living room, 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, hallway, entryway, garage, basement storage area] - Time available each week: [e.g., 3 hours on Saturdays, 1 hour on weeknights] - Physical limitations: [e.g., I have mild knee issues so I can’t do a lot of ladder work] - Priority areas that bother me most: [e.g., kitchen counters, pantry, master closet, paper piles in the office] - Things I’m okay ignoring for now: [e.g., deep-cleaning windows, organizing the attic]

Please: 1. Break the work into a 4-week plan with tasks grouped into 60 - 90 minute sessions. 2. For each session, list specific tasks as checkboxes, in a logical order, with brief, plain-language instructions. 3. Start with the highest-impact, most visible areas so I can see progress quickly. 4. Include a short “Before you start” section with what supplies I’ll need. 5. Include a “Good enough” rule for each room so I know when to stop and move on.

If anything is unclear, ask me clarifying questions before giving the plan.

Why this prompt works: You are giving the AI context about your **actual home, schedule, and limits**, instead of asking for a generic “spring cleaning checklist.” That lets it tailor the plan to your reality, not to an imaginary person with weekends free and endless energy. The numbered instructions make it structure the output in a way that’s easy to follow. Asking for questions if anything is unclear encourages it to fill in gaps *before* building a plan that doesn’t fit.

One thing to watch out for AI will happily assign you more than you can realistically do in a day if you’re not careful. If the first version looks too ambitious, tell it plainly: “This is too much for one session, cut it in half,” and have it revise. Also remember it can’t see your house; if it suggests tasks that don’t apply (like “wipe baseboard heaters” when you don’t have any), just say, “Remove any tasks about [X] and adjust the plan.” You are allowed to push back.

Use Case 2 of 2

Use Case 2: Giving Feedback to a Team Member

On Tuesday, August 26th, at 9:15 pm, Rob was sitting at his dining table with his laptop open and his glasses halfway down his nose. He runs a small consulting firm - just him, one full-time project coordinator, and a couple of contractors.

His coordinator, Maya, is 32 and generally excellent. But over the past month, a pattern had crept in: client status reports going out late, a few sloppy typos, and one instance where a client’s email sat unanswered for three days. Nothing catastrophic, but enough to make him uneasy.

He’d been meaning to talk to her about it for a week. Instead, he kept rewriting the same draft email. In one version he sounded too harsh; in another, he sounded so vague she might not realize anything was wrong. He worried about discouraging her, especially because she’d taken on extra work during a busy season. At the same time, he knew that if he let things slide, he was teaching her that details didn’t matter.

What Rob needed wasn’t a script. He needed help organizing his thoughts: what exactly was bothering him, what “good” looked like, and how to say it in a way that was honest, specific, and fair. AI can’t have the conversation for you, but it can help you draft something that sounds like *you* on a good day, rather than you on five hours of sleep and three cups of coffee.

Here is the exact prompt to use:

Copy and paste this into ChatGPT or Claude:

Again, copy and paste this, then fill in the bracketed parts with your details.

I want you to act as a communication coach.

Help me draft feedback for a team member in a way that is clear, respectful, and specific.

Here is the situation: - My role: [e.g., owner of a small consulting firm] - Their role: [e.g., project coordinator, full-time employee] - Our relationship and history: [e.g., she’s been with me for 2 years, generally very reliable and proactive, I value her a lot] - What I’ve observed (facts, not judgments): [e.g., three weekly status reports sent late; several typos in client emails; one client email left unanswered for 3 days] - Why it matters: [e.g., it affects how professional we appear to clients and increases my stress because I feel I have to double-check everything] - What “good” would look like: [e.g., reports sent by end of day Friday; client emails responded to within one business day; proofreading before sending] - My tone goals: [e.g., honest but kind, firm on expectations, not dramatic]

Please: 1. Ask me 3 - 5 clarifying questions if needed, to make sure you understand. 2. Draft: - A short email I can send to set up the conversation. - A simple outline for what to say in the conversation (key points and phrases). 3. Use plain, conversational language that sounds like a human, not corporate jargon. 4. Include 2 - 3 phrases I can use if she gets defensive (e.g., “I hear you, and…”). 5. Keep the focus on behaviors and impact, not on her personality.

After the draft, briefly explain why you chose that wording.

Why this prompt works: You’re giving the AI **concrete facts, not just “I need to give feedback”**, which helps it avoid vague or generic advice. You explicitly state your goals for tone and content, so it doesn’t default to stiff corporate language. Asking for questions first forces it to understand the situation, rather than jumping to a canned script. Requesting both an email and a conversation outline makes the result practical, not theoretical.

One thing to watch out for These tools can sound more confident than *you* actually feel. Don’t send any AI-generated message without reading it out loud once and adjusting it into your own voice. Also, AI doesn’t know your company culture or any legal sensitivities. If the issue is serious (performance warnings, legal risk, HR implications), treat the output as a draft and, if needed, run it by a real HR or legal professional before using it.

Know someone who spends too long on things AI could do in two minutes?

Forward Smarter by Thursday to three people who subscribe and I will send you my free AI Prompt Starter Pack: 20 ready-to-use prompts for everyday life.

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