Sept. 4, 2022, noon

PinkLetter - Transactional help

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My Ramblings This Week

I always thought of helping and being helped as a transaction: I help you and get a token, or you help me and I spend a token. I was so wrong!

As you prolly know, I love reaching out to strangers on the internet. Just last week, I talked with an engineer at ConvertKit, connected with a devrel strategist, and had several micro-interactions with the coolest folks. I wasn’t trying to extract any value, still, those conversations were super fun and taught me a lot. Not to count, I was super energized afterward.

With my transaction model, I was trying to be respectful of people’s time: I couldn’t spend a token until I earned one. But this is bullshit, I never check if a person who’s asking for my help has a token to spend because time is not the only currency we exchange.

To be honest, I’m not sure there’s such a clear separation of roles. I still remember teaching Elm to a friend, catching them a few weeks later hacking on Haskell, and ending up deploying an Elm/Haskell webapp to production in a few months together.

Did I really help him? Or was it me being helped? None. We both helped each other.

That’s why I stopped looking at help as a transaction. As strange as it sounds, you can be helped while you are providing value back. And that’s actually what I look forward to every time I reach out on the internet.

Elsewhere on the Web

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Choosing a niche makes you a commodity. Choosing an obsession makes you the only.

Riccardo: This is insight porn, but it’s also a reminder that, if you do you, you are unique.


I Made A MULTIPLAYER Game in MICROSOFT WORD! by Seth

In this indie devlog I made a multiplayer game entirely built and run in Microsoft Word using Microsoft add-ins and JavaScript.

Riccardo: Because why not?!


There’s More to Open Source than Code by Ramón Huidobro

Riccardo: That’s why I’m proud of my non-code contribution to github/hotkey.

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