What's Working: May 2026
What’s been working well in my life - plus a curated list of links to what I’ve been reading, listening to, watching, and cooking.
My dear reader.
First, a little giveaway!
My beloved friend Amelia Hruby will soon be leading a 3-day workshop intensive called COME TO CLASS: How to teach & sell online with confidence and care. I absolutely love Amelia’s work, and I’m thrilled to be contributing everything I know about online teaching/facilitating via a pre-recorded interview for this class, and in exchange Amelia is gifting one of my readers a free spot! You can enter to win right here (deadline is May 10).
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And now, as always on the first Tuesday of each month, I’m here with my free offering for all subscribers: a roundup of what’s been working well in my life plus a curated list of links to what I’ve been reading, listening to, watching, and cooking.
In the comments I’d love to hear what’s been working well for you (even/especially amidst hard times), as well as any of your own recommended links for us all to check out.
Enjoy!
What’s Working
Playing with the lambs in the pasture throughout the day. Building small altars for each of my parents. DVDs from the library. Chives from the garden. Hiking alone in the early mornings. The smell of homemade granola baking in the oven. Multiple forms of allergy meds (praise be to medical science). Backwards hat and hoop earrings as current gender. Proper hydration. Not pretending, with anything. 30-minute sessions in a 200-degree sauna. Did I mention proper hydration? Long hugs. Big pieces of bubblegum. Being unapologetically nerdy about everything that I love.
Top Recs: Reading, Listening, Watching
My entire personality this week is the Cocodona 250 livestream. A 250-mile race from Phoenix to Flagstaff, and at the time that I’m writing this Rachel Entrekin is leading not just the women’s race but the overall race. Let’s fucking gooooo! (This is a wonderful interview to learn more about Rachel.) And then the current male leader (and second place overall) is Kilian Korth, who I worked with for some coaching stuff last year and am cheering for so hard right now. Fandom is the best, ya’ll! Find something you love and follow it with glee: that’s my current life advice.
One more on the athlete side: this honest interview with Max Jolliffe, about his journey from addiction to ultrarunning, really touched me.
One of the most resonant things I’ve read recently comes from Kelly Hayes, who wrote a newsletter dispatch called “This Is No Way to Live” that speaks directly to the pain of this fucked up time we’re currently experiencing. “Survival is a collective process,” Kelly writes toward the end of the piece. “We weren’t meant to do it alone, just as we weren’t meant to solve problems larger than ourselves alone.“ Amen.
Someone else whose real-time writing/political analysis is always both a balm and a rallying cry for me is Margaret Killjoy. “The US is ruled by a mad king,” she writes in this newsletter about the death of agency, “and none of us knows what to do.”
This essay by Rosie Spinks (called “A project will save you”) is about AI and the job apocalypse, but really it’s about so much more.
I know the inner workings of the global oil supply system might not be everyone’s deep-dive research topic of choice, but in case you’d like to learn more this interview with Rory Johnston breaks it down quite clearly through the lens of the continued closure of the Strait of Hormuz. (Yes, my interests make me a lot of fun at dinner parties lol)
Speaking of deep dives that will make you a real delight to be around, The Honest Sorcerer nails it with this breakdown of the knock-on effects of where we are, collectively as a globalized society, due to the Iran war.
You know I love anything at the intersection of art and money, and Anna Brones writes about that so well here.
I’m constantly inspired by the things folks are doing to build more resilient and interconnected communities, such as this look at how to start a free store in your community.
Books! If you’re into fairytale re-tellings I recommend Lady Tremaine, by Rachel Hochhauser, which is a fun and fresh take on Cinderella’s stepmother. The other novel I absolutely devoured recently was Lily King’s Heart The Lover. Her writing style just blows me away with its deft precision (not a single superfluous word, I swear) and how emotionally evocative the storytelling is throughout the whole book. A real joy all around!
Monthly podcast series
I’ve been having such a good time joining my dear friend Amelia Hruby (who I mentioned at the top!) as a monthly guest on her podcast, Off The Grid.
Tune into the most recent episode to hear us talk about:
How we simultaneously rage against consistency and attribute our success to it
The relationship between consistency and cultivating trust with your audience
Ways to build better (for you) rhythms in your business
What to do when your launch plans line up with a major (horrible) event
Why it’s important to get off the do-or-die, boom-or-bust, sell-or-go-bankrupt hamster wheel
Cute baby sheep, gardening and cooking as tiny balms for the present moment
Cooking & Baking
The granola I’ve been making is a simplified version of this one. I use oats, almonds, cinnamon, vanilla, coconut oil, and maple syrup.
No other recipes to share this month, since baby sheep tending has totally taken over my life/brain and there has been very little kitchen creativity as a result. Alas, worth it!
Your turn!
What’s been working well for you lately? Do you have any reading, listening, watching, or cooking recommendations of your own to share? Tell us, tell us!
<3
Nic
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I am loving your conversations with Amelia, Nic! Thank you for doing them.
What’s working well:
Deep dive into Nicole Cloutier’s “Launch Line” small-group experience; daily meditations; twice-weekly gym sessions + mostly daily walks; watching Satsang delivered by my spiritual teacher; reading (I’ve read 22 books in the first quarter of 2026!); making nourishing meals.
Recent Faves in Books: The Kitchen House (Kathleen Grissom), Writing Creativity and Soul (Sue Monk Kidd), Hollywood to the Himalayas (Sadhvi Bhagavati Saraswati).
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Yay for lambs! I look forward to diving into the essays you shared.
What’s working for me: the month of May. It’s so beautiful, and I get to go on a little trip to Northern Michigan next week. I’ll be outside and enjoy some of my favorite places and restaurants. Also: getting back on an antidepressant. I realized the fatigue and general malaise was depression and decided to get back on an antidepressant. It’s working. While I don’t love the side effects, I had been struggling for months and was increasingly not functional. Very glad for science and brain drugs. Allergy meds, too. I’m on so many 😂
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Happy Spring, everyone!
I devoured Heart the Lover in like 24 hours - could not put it down. Other reads I’ve enjoyed this year: Solito by Javier Zamora, Great Circle by Maggie Shipstead, and Paradiso 17 by Hannah Assad.
Podcast recommendation: This episode of All There Is https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-there-is-with-anderson-cooper/id1643163707?i=1000762991824 Heavy, haunting, hopeful.
Purchased an adorable Victrola Willow radio (cheap on eBay) for the kitchen counter. It’s got a cute retro look and we are enjoying listening to NPR in the mornings and evenings.
Easy vegan miso cookies with chocolate chips: https://thechestnutbakery.com/easy-vegan-miso-cookies-with-chocolate-chips/?utm_source=Pinterest&utm_medium=organic
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Can co-sign Solito!
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Yay, I’m glad Rosie had a buddy!
What’s working well: Staying away from breaking news without staying away from the news. Wilderness First Aid class. I hope I never have to use that knowledge and it was such a fun and rewarding learning experience. When I overcommitted and accidentally triggered a weeklong migraine I didn’t add mind drama, just readjusted my schedule to match my energy. Learning Portuguese for fun.
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I'm one hundred percent with you on "Being unapologetically nerdy about everything that I love"!
Also, still delighted about the fact that you have baby sheep (and quite envious too)! We occasionally get baby goats at our county shelter and even though I'm on the canine team, I always manage hang out with the baby goats after my shift.
Been a really stressful few weeks in my life due to a severe mental health crisis of a close family member, so the only things that are keeping me afloat and semi-functional right now are: my husband and my pets, my shelter shifts, and my four best friends who check in every single day with calls and texts and funny animal videos and really dark humor. Also, remembering that nothing last forever. Also, dark chocolate, lots and lots of dark chocolate.
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Happy May! I did a DIY creative retreat last week and went into it with a solid perspective that I'd be writing a non-fiction and walked away with a complete storyboard for a novel. So what's working: letting my instincts guide, giving myself permission to be a beginner (I tried watercolor), time with loved ones, staying near the beach, listening to the seagulls, reminding myself that home doesn't have to be just one place or person, eating until I'm full, and pinwheels (the snack/dessert). Love these opportunities to reflect - thank you, Nic!
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Family gatherings and having the hard conversations that make the relationships stronger have been my highlights of this month.
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"Being unapologetically nerdy about everything that I love" is the best statement I've heard in a long time!
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What's working for me lately: remembering to be more water than rock as both metaphor and body practice, Pig yoga (!!!!), animal sanctuaries in general, adopting two new tiny kittens (Chickpea + Tofu!) last night and being in surreal delight about it, vegetarian chicken naan wraps with lettuce, tomato, and mayo, listening to my anger and responding accordingly, garden prep daydreams, hazelnut syrup in my coffee. <3
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Also working for me is books (always). Some favorites have been rereading ACOTAR, Good People by Patmeena Sabit, Whidbey by T Kira Madden, Kin by Tayari Jones, and The Burning Side by Sarah Damoff!
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