Okay wow, yes, THANK YOU for sharing the details of your situation with us, along with the honesty of your feelings/questions/thought process. That's the thing within these systems: there is no "perfect" answer, and we're all just trying to take care of ourselves and each other however we can, right?
So I just want to say that I'm here to witness this situation alongside you, especially the hardships it involves, and to reassure you of the validity of a less "sensible" decision. Just because something doesn't follow the playbook of the majority doesn't make it less valid!
Okay wow, yes, THANK YOU for sharing the details of your situation with us, along with the honesty of your feelings/questions/thought process. That's the thing within these systems: there is no "perfect" answer, and we're all just trying to take care of ourselves and each other however we can, right?
So I just want to say that I'm here to witness this situation alongside you, especially the hardships it involves, and to reassure you of the validity of a less "sensible" decision. Just because something doesn't follow the playbook of the majority doesn't make it less valid!