Oh Nic, I'm so sorry you're going thru this and am delighted that you're finding love and solace in these sweet (and horrifying) memories.
My mom passed away somewhat unexpectedly exactly two years ago. My dad had already passed. After she passed, I had the honor (yes, it was a lot of work) of being the executer. Since I was the only child who lived near her, I was the one that was responsible for emptying a family home of 60 years to get it ready to sell. In doing so, every little thing had a memory. From her favorite sweater, to her books, to the blueprints of the house, to their china and silver, to their photo albums, everything held a special meaning. So many tears were shed. Honestly the most time consuming was going through all the photos. But that was the funnest part - to relive all the memories. I spent every possible minute at the house as I could. As it represented everything to our family - it's where all the family gatherings were held, so many neighborhood friends, childhood memories. I needed to encapsulate it in my mind and heart forever. And I think I did. An added bonus - my brother and I spread their ashes under the giant oak tree on the property, so they are forever there.
I'm sending you much love during this time of transition. Be well, and let yourself feel all the feels.
Oh Nic, I'm so sorry you're going thru this and am delighted that you're finding love and solace in these sweet (and horrifying) memories.
My mom passed away somewhat unexpectedly exactly two years ago. My dad had already passed. After she passed, I had the honor (yes, it was a lot of work) of being the executer. Since I was the only child who lived near her, I was the one that was responsible for emptying a family home of 60 years to get it ready to sell. In doing so, every little thing had a memory. From her favorite sweater, to her books, to the blueprints of the house, to their china and silver, to their photo albums, everything held a special meaning. So many tears were shed. Honestly the most time consuming was going through all the photos. But that was the funnest part - to relive all the memories. I spent every possible minute at the house as I could. As it represented everything to our family - it's where all the family gatherings were held, so many neighborhood friends, childhood memories. I needed to encapsulate it in my mind and heart forever. And I think I did. An added bonus - my brother and I spread their ashes under the giant oak tree on the property, so they are forever there.
I'm sending you much love during this time of transition. Be well, and let yourself feel all the feels.