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I'm curious about anything you're willing to share about how you navigate finances in a partnership. I am also legally married to my partner and we keep mostly separate finances, only sharing things like housing and grocery costs, managing our own debt, savings, and personal spending, etc. Sounded simple at the start, but we're finding there's a lot of grey area in there. How do you, as someone who is so intentional with their money choices, balance that with another whole human?