Of course, Sam, happy to share! I'm working with Revalue: https://www.revalueinvesting.com/
I am sending you just the biggest hug as you begin to navigate this, and if you have any specific questions along the way please feel free to ask. More generally, it helped that my mom wasn't at all resistant to moving. Between her own mild dementia and very advanced end-stage COPD she cannot live alone, and once my dad died she was fully ready and accepting of the need to go to assisted living. I toured a bunch of places, both in FL and near me in MA, and the place I ultimately chose is about 20 minutes from my home and has both regular assisted living (which she's in now) as well as a memory care unit (in case she needs to shift to that later on). Since she wasn't able to tour places with me, it helped to ask her what she wants from her new home and really listen, and then do my best to find the right match. It also helped that we had already done her estate planning type documents well before the move, and that I am her POA, health care proxy, a cosigner on her bank account, etc and can therefore make decisions and commitments on her behalf.
Of course, Sam, happy to share! I'm working with Revalue: https://www.revalueinvesting.com/
I am sending you just the biggest hug as you begin to navigate this, and if you have any specific questions along the way please feel free to ask. More generally, it helped that my mom wasn't at all resistant to moving. Between her own mild dementia and very advanced end-stage COPD she cannot live alone, and once my dad died she was fully ready and accepting of the need to go to assisted living. I toured a bunch of places, both in FL and near me in MA, and the place I ultimately chose is about 20 minutes from my home and has both regular assisted living (which she's in now) as well as a memory care unit (in case she needs to shift to that later on). Since she wasn't able to tour places with me, it helped to ask her what she wants from her new home and really listen, and then do my best to find the right match. It also helped that we had already done her estate planning type documents well before the move, and that I am her POA, health care proxy, a cosigner on her bank account, etc and can therefore make decisions and commitments on her behalf.