Introduction to Fun Things We Like
Hi everyone-Emily and Amelia recently did a podcast about their favorite books, shows, and streamers. (Spoiler warning, there are a lot of role playing...
Healthy sex ed resources for young men
Hi everyone- This week is a guest post by Robyn Manning-Samuels, one of Emily’s sex educator friends and co-author on the upcoming Come Together Workbook and...
The Best Books on Sex Right Now (Updated)
Quick message for premium subscribers: You may have gotten a scary unsubscribe message from Substack today, but if you're reading this email, you are still a...
Why Some Penises Are Curvy
This week’s post is classic Emily from her pre-Come As You Are blog, The Dirty Normal. If you’ve ever wondered why some penises are curved, it’s your lucky...
Neuroplastic Pain & The Car Accident Experience
Emily had a car accident. She is safe and not hurt, but her car has seen better days. If you’re interested, she spoke to Amelia about it on the Feminist...
What we've learned about Burnout since writing the book
It’s a team-up newsletter this week, with a question about Burnout: Q: Emily and Amelia, what is something you've learned about Burnout since writing the...
Welcome back to Confidence and Joy
Hello! This is just a short note to say that we’ve (finally) moved Confidence and Joy from Substack to Buttondown. Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski will be...
Mapping Your Emotional Floorplan: A Comic by Erika Moen
Come Together is in paperback now!
Good Sex as Food for the Revolution
A guest post by Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons
Sex positive resources, according to you
As Sebastian the Crab says, “The human world, it’s a mess.” But there are shining lights of sex positivity and excellent information all over the internet!...
We're podcasting again
Time for the Feminist Survival Project 2025
“Joy Policing” Can Go F*** Itself
And we're podcasting again
Three Healthy Morning Habits
Tips from Amelia to help with burnout
Trust: It's a really big concept
PS: Emily is in Austin, TX tomorrow
Q&A: Living with Peyronie’s Disease
Dealing with Peyronie's Disease through sex therapy and open partnership communication.
How did Emily wind up a sex educator?
PS: See you in Austin next month
About Those CDC Guidelines Around IUD Pain Management
I have some bad news, but there is a solution
Hey so about Project 2025
Please vote?
The "Orgasm Gap"
Has it closed at all in the last 30 years?
Part 2: Where does boredom live on the emotional floorplan?
And how does it relate to "seeking"?