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October 27, 2024

A Practice for Samhain and the Start of Something New...

Starting this new format for the newsletter with tender intention and care, thank you for being here with me - I'm excited to share more with you...

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Samhain Practice for gentle embodiment - a seasonal prompt to turn our attention inwards.  
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Dear ,
 
In this newsletter you'll find: 
  • A quick note about my intention for the format of this newsletter 
  • Samhain Practice and Reflections
  • Ways to work with me in the coming months, including Samhain Self-Paced and Event
  • Some recommendations from me of stuff I've been learning from, enjoying and some actions you can take
Welcome to the (only very slightly different) new newsletter! 
 
I've been so touched by the response to the 'rebrand' to Tender Being with Harriet (previously Kindred Soil) and I have been reflecting on how best to connect with you through this newsletter and to honour everyone's precious energy (and if you're anything like me very full inboxes!)

Moving forward my plan is to send newsletters for each Celtic Wheel (8 per year)

These emails will include:
  • A practice inspired by seasonal prompts, intending to offer ourselves and our communities more tenderness and resource.
  • An update on current ways you can connect with my work.
  • Recommendations from me - resources, ideas and actions I have been engaging with and want to share with you
I may send the occasional extra email if I have something new or exciting to share with you that is time sensitive, but the intention is to focus on these main 8 emails. 

(If you want to hear more from me you can of course find me in Substack, Instagram, Insight Timer and you can get in touch directly via email!) 
Samhain Seasonal Practice 

As the days grow shorter and darker, we can see this as a prompt to turn inwards. We have harvested the final harvest and planted the seeds to germinate and nurture over the coming hibernation.

To share a little background to this, I want to share some of the text that I included in this month's Community Home Practice about Self-Care:

I wanted to share a link to a reel about ‘Self Care’ as defined by Audre Lorde.

Self Care as a Radical Act

I think that it’s easy to dismiss self care since it has been coopted and monetised by capitalism. To feel that it’s an indulgence and unnecessary. Just a form of individualism wrapped up in something that smells really really nice.

Coming to you from my (metaphorical, because childcare) sick bed this week after my first reinfection in 4.5 years, I can categorically say that looking after ourselves is absolutely necessary and also radical.

As we live through this Polycrisis of pandemic, genocides, climate collapse, late stage capitalism, we truly need to be in it for the long haul (no covid pun intended).

We need to care for ourselves, in order to care for others. We owe each other everything, our health, freedom, lives and love are inextricably linked.

 
Recognising the ways that the polycrises seem to be worsening, whilst also coming in to a season that in nature would focus around hibernation creates a real challenge.

We need to keep a sense of being grounded in order to not burnout. One of the greatest resources we have for being present is our body. Capitalism trains us to forget this as it needs our bodies to be seen as simply vehicles for our brains and for production, but nature can prompt us to reconnect.  
 
The Samhain Practice invitation is to engage in the
Compassionate Body Scan. 

My hope is that this practice can offer you a gentle way to explore being more present in your body, and through that presence and awareness you may be able to access more self-compassion and feel more resourced. It is available via Insight Timer or Google Drive - links for both below. 


If you want to connect with a group of us to mark Samhain, you can do so by joining the Community Membership in Substack. It's been lovely to have a base there for our Events and Practices and it's Pay what you can (including free spaces), so it is financially accessible to all. 

I have shared my own Samhain reflections on the podcast and I'd love to hear your responses to the prompts and/or to what I've shared in the comments - come on over to Substack. 

Compassionate Body Scan - Insight Timer
Compassionate Body Scan - Google Drive
Community Membership on Substack
Samhain Podcast Episode
Currently I am focusing a lot on training - which is exciting (and often daunting as two of the courses I'm doing are very in-depth!!) but this means that the rest of this year is a little quieter in terms of formal offerings. However as I've mentioned we've got our new Community Membership option - more below...
 
🌿 Community Membership on Substack

I've been finding the beginnings of finding a home for our community on Substack really nourishing and exciting. The Membership is available on a 'pay what you can' basis, so whatever your budget you can join us!

Inside you'll find:
  • The new home for all Celtic Wheel Events, we will be gathering for Samhain on 2nd November - there's still time to sign up and join us. 
  • Monthly drop-in Mindfulness Sessions happening on the second Saturday of every month.
  • An invitation to engage with a seasonal Home Practice every month, as well as the opportunity to connect and discuss with me and others about what you notice, any questions or insights.
If you'd like to join us, we'd love to welcome you into the community - any questions you can simply reply to this email and get in touch. 
Community Membership on Substack
My Recommendations 
 
There has been a frustrating contradiction of becoming a parent where I have felt filled with creativity and have been drained of the time and energy to birth any of them into reality. 

But I've been reading and learning and watching things during baby's naps, during windows of free time, and it occurred to me that I don't have to have finished my full take on everything - I'm not writing essays for a university. 

Instead I can share with you the resources, ideas and also any actions that I have been engaging with. All the little ways I'm expanding my understanding of myself, of others, building more empathy, and engagement. All the ways I'm trying to throw the starfish back in... As well as just indulging in sharing TV recommendations! 

These aren't intended as a reading / to do list - just a little insight into the stuff I'm exploring and an invitation to join me if any of it peaks your interest! 

Here are my recommendations for this newsletter:

This video that I watched as part of one of my trainings - fascinating overview of how stress isn't necessarily bad for you (I hope to write some more about this at some point)

This website which is super helpful with resources for countering the misinformation and minimisation of covid. 

This Substack article entitled 'I do not love being a mother' by Emma Del Rey 

These petitions
Palestine 
Frequent Flying Levy

And finally some TV recommendations (because I dont want to represent myself as always learning - I also love and need TV to decompress and love to share TV recommendations, please do share yours with me too!) 
Slow Horses - Apple TV 
We Might Regret This - BBC Iplayer
Great British Bake off - Channel 4
Check out my new website
Thank you so much for your support
 
🌱 It's an honour to journey together as we cross from season to season 🌱
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