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March 31, 2024

Hitting The Links: 3/31/24

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Rush

“It is the only effective use of the second person voice in years,” Salman Rushdie told me. He was talking about a novel, but I missed the title of it, because of all the traffic noise. We were trying to record a podcast, but he insisted we do it outside, and a passing truck meant the audio was going to be terrible.

That wasn’t the only problem. I was given no notice about it and had no time to prepare, being told on the spot that he was waiting to record a podcast with me for his new book, which I hadn’t read. I assumed the complete lack of notice was for security purposes, but in that case it didn’t make sense that he’d then want to record on a street corner. Trying to look at the license plates of passing traffic, I realized I didn't even know which city we were in.

Dreams can be funny that way. This one is a distant runner-up to my wittiest literary dream ever, which I had when I was only 19 years old. In it, I was in a bookstore and saw the forthcoming Thomas Pynchon novel, Vineland. I grabbed it off the display, and read the flap copy. The About the Author photo was of an empty room. I even laughed in the dream.

Anyway, the Rushdie dream was such a frustrating podcast-experience that my brain just kicked me out of it and into wakefulness. I still have no idea what novel Rushdie would have been referring to. I wrote a mutual friend of ours a postcard about it.

The rest of the half-week? Sheesh:

  • Political fundraiser/campaign event in Red Bank, NJ on Wednesday, where I talked with a Congressman about a bill my industry’s concerned about. I got in early to beat traffic, and visited the neat menswear store Garmany, which had these awesome shoes.

Photo of a black loafer that's covered in little silver spikes.
CRUEL SHOES
  • The next day I got my NYC-visiting niece to come out to NJ so we could surprise my old man with a visit. He was happy. She & I did a lot of talking as I drove her back to NYC that night.

Photo of a young white woman in a black jacket & jeans standing beside her grandfather, whose hair is a mess. They're both smiling
It's a mitzvah
  • Good Friday was Good because everyone in my industry took the day off, and I could catch up on some stuff. Benny got himself into a jam.

Photo of a black and white greyhound on a tan leather sofa. The greyhound has flipped on his back and somehow wound up with a sofa-bolster across his body.
Trapped by a bolster
  • And Saturday I drove up to Providence, RI to record next week’s show, feat. Leela Corman. After, I visited my long-time friends Paul Di Filippo & Deb Newton, and we had a good talk for an hour. I picked up some coffee & a pastry & drove home. I hadn’t done a 400-mile day in a long time, and it was wearing.

Photo of a pair of Instax vertical photos: left is a cat in a sunbeam on a daybed, and right is a corner of a living room, with prints on the wall and a lamp below.
Part of my secret art project. Maybe I'll launch a Kickstarter for it later this year

I could go long about each of these, and in my head I already have. There’s so much I want to tell you and so much I want to hear from you. If you’re celebrating Easter today, I hope you have a good holiday.

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And now, let’s hit the links!

Links & Such

  • Recent Virtual Memories Show podcasts: Keith Mayerson • Edith Hall • David Small • Brad Gooch • Japan, a monologue • Scott Guild • Aaron Lange

  • RIP Richard Serra (tribute by Sebastian Smee and another by Jerry Saltz) . . . RIP Bob Moskowitz . . . RIP Louis Gossett, Jr. . . . RIP Daniel Kahneman . . . RIP Bob Beerbohm . . . RIP SPD . . .

  • Also, Joe Lieberman died.

  • After a breakup with a singer-songwriter, I was concerned that I & my terrible behavior might show up in a song/album at some point. Brett Martin’s journey into becoming a song subject was much stranger. This is one of the greatest stories of our time.

  • I missed the news a couple weeks ago: David Marchese has left the NYT Talk interview feature to co-launch a new NYT thang called The Interview. Jake Silverstein, who hired at him at the Times, did an exit interview with him. I’m in sync with a lot of what DM says, in terms of learning how to talk AND to listen, how it feels when a past guest dies, what it’s like to interview someone whose work you don’t necessarily dig, and how the interviewer changes over the years, the way the conversations are a sort of autobiography of the host. Anyway, GIVE IT A READ.

  • For many years, I have said, “Everything in New York City is a real estate scam,” but this one takes the cake.

  • I suppose there’s a modern corollary around, “Every male-fronted self-improvement pseudoscientific podcast is a nutritional supplement/boner pill scam and the host is a horndog.”

  • Mark Ulriksen offers up another great painting-process email, this one around a Great Pyrenees.

  • New MUTTS book from Patrick McDonnell!

  • “I got clothing advice from Cary Grant” is something I’d be dining out on for the rest of my life.

  • Bird(ing) is the word, sez Ed Yong.

  • “Nest builders of the Worm Moon” sounds like a lost chapter of Yes’ Starship Troopers, but it’s also the title of this week’s FIELD NOTES from Christopher Brown (2018, 2019, 2020, 2023). (Go pre-order his upcoming book, A Natural History of Empty Lots!)

Current/Recent Reading

Victory Parade - Leela Corman

Unterzakhn - Leela Corman

You Are Not A Guest - Leela Corman

Lessons for Survival - Emily Raboteau

“I am alive, I have my own children, and with them I have tried to achieve only one aim: that they shouldn’t be afraid of their father. They aren’t. I know that.”

—Karl Ove Knausgaard (tr. Don Bartlett), My Struggle: Book 3

Fractured Body, Fractured Mind

I’m back to doing my morning routine, with a few rehab exercises swapped in. And last week I managed to get in 4 straight days of yoga-weights (alternating) workouts. I hoped to get in 5 straight days this week (Friday-Tuesday), but spent yesterday on that 400-mile round trip, & by the time I got home, I was in no mood/shape for a yoga workout. I did get in a 4-mile walk with one of my pals this morning, and hope to get in weights later today. So maybe I’ll still get 4-in-5-days done. Although my body’s kinda beat from all that stuff I mentioned at the top.

Here’s me at the campaign event on Wednesday.

Photo of white man in light blue dress shirt and navy blazer, in gold-ish lighting
Keeping my hair tied back that tight can get kinda headache-y, but it was worth it.

Until Next Time

Thanks for reading this far! I’ll be back on Wednesday with a new episode and some art, and on Sunday with links, books, & non-workout craziness, & who knows maybe a little profundity or something.

This frail reminder of its giant, dreaming self,

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