This has turned into a bit of a series. Here is part one and part two. And despite my best efforts, there will likely be a part four.

In April, 2019, Eric's parents were getting ready to leave on their first senior mission. The extended family gathered together to attend their farewell (church meeting where the departing missionary/missionaries speak at the pulpit) and a post-church barbecue. It was the first time I was attending a family party without donning my temple garments just for show. I was scared to death. (I don't think anyone noticed, even though the sleeves of my botanical palm leaf dress were sheer).

Informational sidebar: All Mormon missionaries, whether young men, young women, or senior couples pay their own way. Young people pay $400/month for 18-24+ months if they serve their missions in areas where costs have been standardized (within 18 countries) and more $$$ in areas where costs have not been standardized. Senior couples pay anywhere from $800-$4000 a month with the average being around $1500/month.