Hey,
Iāve always said that my schedule works well for me. I work five days a week, but very rarely a 09:00-17:00.
10, 11, or 12:00-16:00 is more like it. So, I do āpart-timeā hours across a five-day week.
(Side-note: not sure why, in all my self-employed freedom, I still maintain that work should be dictated by a 40-hour standard. Weird.)
Iām feeling like thatās not working so well for me, now.
Itās not dreadful, but my days seem to be getting stretched out. Work spills over into evenings. I sometimes do a bit on Saturdays. My relaxed approach is getting sloppy.
And now Iām thinkingā¦ I write about slowness, deliberateness, doing business on purpose. But I still have this idea that I should work five days a week. I'm trying to cram myself into it, but, in so doing, create some resistance that actually makes the whole setup worse for me.
So why am I carrying it on?
Iām working out how to reliably switch to a four-day week. I think I can see how itāll work. I think I need to get a couple of projects finished before I can really implement it. I think it might be amazing.
If I can take Mondays off, then I get a three-day weekend.
If I can take Wednesdays off, then I can get a mid-week firebreak.
Either would be a dream for managing my resurgent anxiety and feeling more purposeful about work and life and all the rest of it.
The flipside is that Iāll need to be more diligent in my working hours. Iām thinking (hoping) that the promise of three non-work days will be enough for me to get my head down on the other four days.
Beyond that, though, I think the real challenge could be in letting my business brain relax. Thereās also something else to doāa personal project to start, emails to send, bits and bobs to bob and bit.
On one hand, it feels like a relaxing.
On the other, it feels like a tightening.
Have you adopted a 4D week? Iād love to hear about other peopleās approaches, as this is a bit of a shift for me. Your advice and reflections, as ever, are greatly appreciated.
Need a little help moving slower?
Ease your way out of Friday afternoon with this newsletter, a nice cup of something, and a little background music. Steal my setup if you aren't sure where to start.
After I press send, Iām going to finish my Costa Coffee flat white. Not exactly in keeping with the caffeine standards professed by this newsletter, I know. The reality is, Iām still living at my parentsā house. They have my niece and nephew round today. Itāll be chaos, itāll be (lovely) distraction. I canāt go into Generator to cowork, as it closes on Bank Holidays. I canāt go to a cute independent cafe, as theyāre all shut. Making do, keeping it real.
The DJ (who, to be clear, is me) is spinning a nice one, this week. I donāt really know what else to say about Kai Warriorās July 5th apart from this: I think the one thing that unites all the music I like, listen to, and recommend is that thereās something in it. Some feeling. Itās often tenderness, sometimes sorrow, sometimes tiny fragments of magic humanity that settle like snowflakes on a tongue.
This song is so tender it might not even have a solid form. Thereās heart and vulnerability, thereās strength and conviction. And thereās some sweet vocals, too. Sheās bottled some sort of human moment in this song and it makes parts of me ache in ways that only music can.
Take it easy,