Issue 35: Smarter by Thursday
Smarter by Thursday
One practical AI win, every week. No jargon required.
If you’ve been curious about AI but still mostly using it for the occasional “funny poem” or recipe, this week is for you. We’re going to use it for two very real, very grown-up problems: **getting your house under control with a spring cleaning checklist** and **giving clear, respectful feedback to someone on your team**. Both matter for the same reason: they reduce mental clutter. Less “I should…” floating around in your head, more “Here’s the plan.”
Try at least one before Sunday. That is the whole assignment.
Use Case 1 of 2
Use Case 1: Spring cleaning using a checklist AI creates
Picture this: It’s **Saturday, 9:30 a.m.**, early September, and **Karen**, 57, is standing in her kitchen with a mug of coffee, staring at a cabinet that’s become a small archaeological dig. She’s just dropped a jar of cumin on the floor because the spice shelf is crammed, and as she picks it up, she notices the counters need resealing, the junk drawer won’t close properly, and there’s still a mysterious box in the hall from when her son moved out in May.
Karen keeps thinking, “I need to do a proper deep clean” but never quite starts. Every time she tries, she gets overwhelmed. Should she begin with the guest room? The garage? The paper files? She googles “spring cleaning checklist,” but the lists she finds are either too generic (“Clean all rooms”) or written for big families with three bathrooms and a mudroom. She has a two-bedroom townhouse, one aging dog, and arthritis in her right knee. She needs something tailored: realistic tasks, broken into chunks, with a schedule that doesn’t pretend she’s 25 and loves scrubbing baseboards for fun.
Instead of feeling guilty and frustrated, Karen could let AI act like a practical, slightly bossy friend: “Let me turn this vague ‘I should’ into a clear, step-by-step plan you can actually follow.”
Here is the exact prompt to use:
Copy and paste this into ChatGPT or Claude:
I want you to create a realistic, step-by-step spring cleaning plan and checklist tailored to my home and my energy level. Ask me 8 - 12 specific questions first to understand my situation, then design the plan. After you ask the questions and I answer them, create:
1. A 4-week cleaning schedule, broken into manageable sessions (each session no more than 2 - 3 hours). 2. A detailed checklist for each area of the home, written in clear, simple language. 3. A separate list of “once a year” tasks and “maintenance” tasks. 4. Suggestions for how to adapt tasks if someone has mild joint pain or limited mobility. 5. A one-page summary I can print that shows the whole plan at a glance.
Start by asking your questions about my home (number of rooms, pets, storage spaces, any physical limitations, what bothers me most right now, etc.). Do not create the plan until after I’ve answered your questions.
Why this prompt works:
This prompt works because you’re not asking AI for a generic list; you’re instructing it to **interview you first** so the plan matches your home, your body, and your priorities. You specify the format (weeks, sessions, checklists, summary), which keeps the output practical instead of vague. You also give a clear boundary - no more than 2 - 3 hours per session - so you don’t end up with a heroic but impossible weekend marathon. The result is closer to a custom cleaning coach than a random blog post.
AI doesn’t know your actual stamina, your clutter tolerance, or what drains you emotionally. It might still underestimate how long certain jobs take, or suggest tasks that feel trivial compared to what really bothers you. Be ready to **edit the plan**: cross out anything that feels unrealistic, move tasks to later weeks, and add your own “this has been bugging me for months” items. Think of the AI’s checklist as a strong first draft, not a sacred document.
Use Case 2 of 2
Use Case 2: Giving feedback to a team member
Now let’s talk about a different kind of mess: not dust, but discomfort. It’s **Tuesday, 3:15 p.m.**, and **Michael**, 62, is sitting at his desk in a small consulting firm, re-reading an email from **Jenna**, a project coordinator in her early 30s. She’s capable and bright, but lately her work has been “almost there” instead of solid. Deadlines are technically met, but only after a rush. Details get missed. Clients are happy enough, but Michael keeps seeing small errors he ends up fixing himself.
He knows he needs to address it. He’s been managing people for decades, but it’s getting harder to phrase things in a way that works for younger colleagues who have different expectations around tone and feedback. He doesn’t want to sound harsh or old-fashioned. At the same time, he refuses to sugarcoat real problems - he needs Jenna to understand the impact of these issues on the team and the clients.
So he opens a document and starts typing some notes. They come out too blunt: “You’ve been careless with deadlines.” He starts again, and this time it’s so watered down it sounds meaningless: “Maybe we could explore opportunities to improve our process?” He knows that if he sends this, Jenna won’t know what, exactly, needs to change. What he really wants is a clear, respectful script: specific examples, a calm tone, and a few questions to invite her perspective - not just a lecture.
This is a perfect time to let AI act as a **communication editor**: not telling him what to feel, but helping him say what he already knows he needs to say in a way that’s fair and constructive.
Here is the exact prompt to use:
Copy and paste this into ChatGPT or Claude:
I need help drafting respectful, clear feedback for a team member. I will describe the situation, the specific issues, and what I want to improve. Your job is to:
1. Ask me 5 - 7 clarifying questions to understand the context (role, history, impact on clients, what I’ve already said before). 2. Help me write a short script I can use in a one-on-one conversation (not an email), in my own voice: straightforward, calm, and specific. 3. Include 2 - 3 concrete examples of the behavior I’m concerned about, and 2 - 3 suggestions for how we could improve things together. 4. Include 3 - 4 open-ended questions I can ask them to invite their perspective. 5. Avoid corporate buzzwords or overly therapeutic language. I don’t want “synergies,” and I don’t want to sound like a counseling session. Just human, practical language.
Start by asking your clarifying questions. After I answer, draft the conversation script. Then show me a slightly firmer version and a slightly softer version so I can choose what fits.
Why this prompt works:
This prompt works because you give AI a clear role: **conversation coach**, not mind reader or therapist. You insist on questions first, which forces the AI to understand specifics before drafting anything. You define the format (a spoken script), the tone (straightforward and calm), and what you do *not* want (buzzwords and faux-therapy talk). By asking for firmer and softer versions, you get options rather than one locked-in style, which makes it easier to adjust to your personality and the relationship.
AI can’t see your team member’s face, history, or emotional triggers. A phrase that looks fine on screen may land differently with someone who is anxious, defensive, or dealing with something you don’t know about. Use the script as a **starting point**, then read it out loud and adjust any wording that feels off in your mouth. Also, don’t let AI talk you out of your real concerns: if it softens things so much that the problem disappears, put the clarity back in before you use it.