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only in dreams
November 26, 2022
the night brings him back to me, unwanted
a thanksgiving message
November 23, 2022
from this house to yours
it's the little things
November 19, 2022
taking stock of the small joys in my life pre-thanksgiving
family
November 14, 2022
giving thanks for my family from childhood to now
a twitter eulogy
November 8, 2022
the site's not dead yet, but it is lingering on a hospital bed
the right to say "writer"
November 2, 2022
the fight within myself to call myself a writer
in search of
October 25, 2022
looking for answers about god
new feature: mailbag
October 24, 2022
ask me anything!
regrets, i have a few
October 20, 2022
but only one that keeps me awake at night
couples only
October 12, 2022
on the fallacy of true love, as seen through some cheesy chicago lyrics
she's leaving home
October 4, 2022
my daughter is moving across the country and i have thoughts
the collection
October 1, 2022
how some power rangers toys drove us mad in 1995
the bad teacher
September 28, 2022
remembering mr. dillon, the worst teacher i ever had
two years worth of words
September 26, 2022
on writing for two years about a little of everything, and looking forward to writing more
on death and funerals and gatherings
September 19, 2022
death brings together a family that has drifted apart
the magical world of children's books
September 13, 2022
using my favorite childhood stories to escape for a bit
dependency
September 9, 2022
looking back on a relationship that was not as healthy as it seemed
road tripping
September 7, 2022
the road trips of my childhood seemed a lot longer than they were
the agony and the ecstasy
September 3, 2022
on the roller coaster ride of being a sports fan
since you're gone
August 30, 2022
i've learned more about myself than i knew there was to learn
10 for 60
August 18, 2022
for my 60th, talking about the things that bring me joy
mom, elvis, and me
August 15, 2022
how elvis's death caused a rift that has never healed
an update
August 8, 2022
minus one gallbladder, plus some unexplained pain
august and everything after
August 2, 2022
marking the beginning of the end of the year and the end of my 50s
at fault
July 28, 2022
my husband's sobriety ended our marriage; i'm as much to blame as he is
in bloom
July 9, 2022
on hydrangeas and life
spirit of 76
July 2, 2022
i once believed in liberty and justice for all. that's all gone now
love, in itself
June 30, 2022
trying to figure out what love is, or was, or should be
about nothing and everything
June 27, 2022
i'm having a hard time articulating, but wanted to give you a newsletter regardless
walk on the ocean
June 17, 2022
depression and the will to live
rejuvenation
June 14, 2022
a weekend in rhode island was just what I needed
take a picture
June 7, 2022
buying my way out of the doldrums
these weeds have grown
May 30, 2022
a patio, a shattered table, and some weeds propel me forward
sometimes i feel
May 27, 2022
doom scrolling and anger and people who just don't care
they don't care
May 25, 2022
it has happened again
the perks of being alone
May 24, 2022
i am finally finding single life to my liking
world of two
May 19, 2022
when a relationship ends, an entire world disappears
america, we have a problem
May 15, 2022
writing about it without writing about it
summer is
May 11, 2022
reminiscing about what summer meant to me; promising to relive those days
60
May 10, 2022
as my milestone birthday approaches, i think about what i'm leaving behind
don't pee in the millennium falcon
May 4, 2022
lessons learned
the morning after
May 3, 2022
reacting to last night's news with anger and helplessness
weighing in
April 28, 2022
i have a food problem, but it's a me problem
in my time of dying
April 26, 2022
coming to terms with the fact that forever isn't real
on forgetting
April 22, 2022
in which i try my hand at advice
what we owe our children
April 20, 2022
everything, really
spring has not sprung
April 19, 2022
a delayed spring is a prolonged winter, and prolonged depression
overboard
April 14, 2022
dreams and nightmares and abandonment
twitter as gathering place
April 11, 2022
i've needed to be among friends, and twitter has given me that
passion project
April 9, 2022
a lost passion for photography, hopefully renewed
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