It has been a long time since I sent out a newsletter! In true ADHDer style, my perfectionism has gotten in the way of keeping a regular schedule for this. I’ll try to do better about getting this out more frequently in 2026, and I’ll also try to be kind to myself when I fall short of that goal. I’m a fan of telling my clients and students “progress, not perfection” and this is a good reminder to extend that gentleness to myself.

What’s New?

So much has changed since this last went out!

I have a bunch of new workshops that I’ve been building and am so thrilled to be able to offer them online! My opportunities to teach in-person will be limited in 2026, but I should have a few exciting events to announce in the coming months. Check out the upcoming list of workshops below!

I have started providing disability and leadership coaching and education in partnership with Blue Sky Learning. My co-presenter Em Marshall and I presented our first workshop “Success On Our Own Terms” live last month and there will be additional workshop coming up through the remainder of 2025 and into 2026! Details are below.

My work with Blue Sky Learning also includes one-on-one coaching with a wide variety of folks, including neurodivergent people, adult learners, people transitioning careers, and folks who are trying to understand better how to accommodate their disability needs. As always, I am doing this work through a queer-affirming, inclusive approach. Please note, this coaching work will not include kink and sexuality coaching and is strictly in support of neurodivergent and disabled folks.

Speaking of coaching, I stopped my kink and sexuality relationship coaching earlier this year. That work was incredibly fulfilling but I needed to stop that work for a multitude of reasons. I might go back to it one day, but for now I will be focusing on other priorities. So much love and appreciation to all the wonderful kink and sexuality clients I worked with through the last few years. I hope some of them will continue to join me in my online kink and sexuality workshops!

Upcoming Online Kink & Sexuality Workshops

All of my online kink and sexuality workshops are recorded and a link will be emailed to all ticket holders within 72 hours. This allows folks who can’t join live to still access this content! The link will be active for 30 days.

2025 Remaining Workshops

December 3rd @ 7:30PM Eastern
Big Feelings: Topics & Tools For Advanced Humiliation Play

December 10th @ 7:30PM Eastern
Playing With Power: Creating Kink Scenes That Include Power Exchange

2026 Announced Workshops

January 7th @ 7:30PM Eastern
Neurodivergent In The Dungeon

January 14th @ 7:30PM Eastern
The Nervous Top’s Guide To Scene-Building & Negotiation

February 4th @ 7:30PM Eastern
Navigating Jealousy & Envy

February 25th @ 7:30PM Eastern
Kink Without Burning Out

March 11th @ 7:30PM Eastern
Cultivating Service: A Guide for Service Submissives

Did you miss one of my previous workshops like Non-Monogamous Power Exchange or It’s A Small World: Navigating Sexuality Community Spaces Post-Break-Up? You can access these and other previous workshops on my Gumroad Store!

Upcoming Online Disability & Neurodivergent-Affirming Workshops

Please note that disability workshops are presented to small groups online and will not be recorded. Only people who pre-register ahead of time will be able to access the content!

November 20th @ 7PM Eastern (THIS THURSDAY!)
Navigating Nervousness and Anxiety

December 18th @ 7PM Eastern
Building A Self-Care Toolbox

Until Next Time

I hope the rest of your year is as soft as possible. We’re navigating some challenging times and I know that’s weighing on all of us significantly. I urge us to lean into community to get through this, and to lean into pleasure and connection as the fuel to move through heartbreaking times.

Be well & be kind.