I saw my rapist the other day
and some thoughts on the discourse around Cassie Ventura
Should Celebrities be on Substack?
and some updates
Everything is blooming
Everything feels awful
Bad at Marketing Myself
and do I really wanna change that?
I can no longer comply
my compliant "part" needs a rest
Sometimes the only thing I look forward to is my morning coffee
and that’s ok.
Death & Dying are Normal
my death doula training is nearly over!
This week's Rage & Softness
here’s what made me rage and what kept me soft this past week
A Note on Belonging
the thing I searched for is still out of reach
HAPPY PUB DAY TO MY BOOK!
The Guerrilla Feminist is officially out! Here is a LONG playlist to go with it!
The Guerrilla Feminist
a search for belonging online & offline
See you at the "wellness camps"!
an SSRI reflection
Protective Measures
my week has been shit
Please Preorder My Book!
"The Guerrilla Feminist" is finally ready to preorder!
Book Nook - March
Nonfiction & Fiction books to look out for this month!
Chicken & Wild Rice Soup
the importance of consistency and stability
On Getting Fired
a story from my late-20s
Mascara of Snowflakes
It snowed and I'm happy
The Retraumatization of Book Writing
on the return of memory
Book Nook - February
Nonfiction & Fiction books to look out for this month!
"We mend what's broken when we come together"
On grief and the current struggle
Friendship in the Time of Covid & Genocide
an excerpt from a chapter of my upcoming book
Learning about death & dying is self-care
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Social Media is on Life Support
it might be time to turn it off
Book Nook - January
Nonfiction & Fiction books to look out for this month!
My book is coming out!
in March! And some other updates! Happy 2025!
2024: Year In Review
My favorite Books, Music, TV & More of 2024
Money Story
and an enormous thank you
Life is Scarier than Death
death doula-ing towards the apocalypse
Book Nook - December
Nonfiction & Fiction books to look out for this month!
The Apple Watch of My Discontent
how technology has brought on compulsive exercise and ocd
The Radical Reference Desk
a brief timeline of U.S.-based library activism
The Problem with Higher Ed
people can't afford it, programs are disappearing, what's next?
There Are Cracks in the Empire
The U.S. is a fascist country, but we're still here fighting
Book Nook - November
Nonfiction & Fiction books to look out for this month!
Food Trauma
when food is triggering
People Don't Know Shit About PCOS
I have PCOS and I might be in perimenopause--the best of times!
A Trauma & Grief With No Exit Wound
none of us should have to imagine what a genocide feels like to care about it
A Woman Online (and Off)
when grown men harass you just to feel something
The Importance of Dependence
relearning how to depend on each other
Book Nook - October
Nonfiction & Fiction books to look out for this month!
What is this thing?
an introduction (or reintroduction) to my work
My Substack Summer
What I read in Summer 2024
Beauty Risks
the harmful quest for youth
In September, I wait
Some climate anxiety, some updates, the usual links!
The Work of Sex
a reflection of my short time as a sex worker
Book Nook - September
Nonfiction & Fiction books to look out for this month!
“June, July, August. Everything wrong, and nowhere to go”
an August farewell and updates!
Struggling & Writing Anyways
imposter syndrome! jealousy! competitiveness!
I Feel It All, Literally
revisiting Sensory Processing Disorder