"havering" is synonymous with "yapping"
one of those workdays where it feels like you're stuck and accomplishing nothing followed by a day where you have a series of small triumphs that you...
all over each other in the stretch hummer
in terms of great single episodes of reality tv, i recommend the real world season 31 episode 10 (mtv, paramount+), which we watched last night and i am...
addicted to reality
all fours by miranda july which i am constitutionally a person who when a bunch of other people experience something supposedly great before me and hype it...
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[fiona apple voice] drain the chickpeas
on friday, i finally took the thirty seconds necessary to hide all the hundreds of files on my desktop after months ago when deborah saw the buildup (which...
the circus
i made a video of kenneth koch reading his poem "the circus" set to clips of late 50s new york. (previously: on khloe kardashian and "the circus")
just him telling various zionists "fuck you"
deleting the threads app off my phone, which like i had given up on actually really using threads almost immediately post launch but i still kept the app...
champagne problems version of this take i know
feel like i haven't written in here in a million years and have a million things to write about which will take a million hours to complete to do any sort of...
spring asparagus
things i've been watching: the zone of interest (now streaming on max if you missed it, haunting and i appreciate jonathan glazer as a director who is still...
not something i'd experienced in carrot cake before
i'm thankful that it is light out earlier now, that instead of it immediately being time to get up the first moment i open my eyes, i open them and see that...
tavi gevinson doing i love dick on taylor swift
"fan fiction: a satire", which is tavi gevinson doing i love dick on taylor swift (my original elevator pitch reference point was marie calloway but tonally...
what's crackalackin
the show couples therapy which i had avoided because it seemed like it might be a downer and sometimes it is but mostly it's just very entertaining to...
another bespoke mental illness i have recently discovered
snuffle mats, if you don't have a dog, are an alternative to a dog's food bowl (usually a cloth mat with lots of frills and pockets for food to hide in) that...
she said to me condescendingly
at work we had a long guild discussion about the fraught relationship between engineering and design, which was enriching and also hilarious because usually...
deborah's march vlog, a highlight of my life
it's time for another monthly vlog from deborah, here is a short concrete description of every shot in the video. i watch rough cuts of this video all month...
out of memory
i had a pretty good day on wednesday and because i want to record it as a kind of talisman to grasp on bad days and also i think it's interesting to read...
frank o'hara's walk poems
i'm thankful that though i had a really weird and unpleasant spike of nausea on friday afternoon that made it impossible for a while to think of anything but...
the dream of spoiler-free search
miso went to daycare yesterday because they were supposed to mulch the stump of the tree they unnecessarily cut down in our backyard (they didn't end up...
not afraid to be servicey
i'm really sorry to do this to you but i have been living with this inside me for so long and i wonder if in the tradition of email chain letters / curses in...
...audioslave?
the work problems i was ambiently dreading having to figure out for the start of my monday i found, on holding my breath while opening slack and checking my...
little orange raindrops
the weather was all of a sudden very nice (65-70f/18.3-211c) all weekend, it really feels like spring is here. on saturday we had a little cookout (i'm...