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I’m Sorry You’re Lonely but It’s Not My Job to Help You: The Science of Incels
December 2, 2022
Plus a podcast and... a puppet??
Back to Substack!
November 23, 2022
Hi, I'm Emily. From the internet.
Q&A: Orgasm After Hysterectomy
October 25, 2022
You may need to relearn how to feel safe in your body
The Science of Saving Your Sex Life
October 20, 2022
To Maximize Your Potential, Maximize Pleasure
Q&A: How to Tell When a “Helpful” Suggestion Isn’t Actually Helping
October 11, 2022
You get to decide what ideas are a good fit for you.
What is Sexual Health?
October 4, 2022
Let's talk pleasure, my friends.
Q & A: Women Who Are More Sexual in Affairs
September 27, 2022
There are many reasons someone might feel this way.
Follow-Up: Ethical Porn Recommendations
September 22, 2022
The options have exploded, no pun intended.
Q & A: Orgasms While Sleeping
September 20, 2022
Orgasming while you sleep is normal – let's talk about why it happens.
The Clitoris in Your Head
September 15, 2022
Have you ever seen a cortical homunculus?
Homage to the Clitoris
September 13, 2022
It's where it's at!
September is Sexual Health Awareness Month
September 6, 2022
Let's talk about sex and tech 👾
Q&A: Should I Stop Watching Porn?
August 28, 2022
Questions you can ask yourself about your relationship with porn.
The DEFINITIVE ANSWER to the Question, “Does the G-Spot Exist?”
August 25, 2022
And how to explain it to someone who asks
Q&A: Sex and Attraction
August 18, 2022
The science of attraction isn't very sciencey
Even Before Birth Control, More Sex Does Not Equal More Pregnancies
August 16, 2022
Also: What was the typical frequency of sex among married women in the 1920s?
Q&A Amelia's Burnout Reading List
August 9, 2022
The books that helped her heal – including the one she doesn't usually talk about.
Despair… and Its Cure
August 4, 2022
They came to help because of Sadness
Miswanting
July 28, 2022
What is it you want when you want sex?
Q&A: How Much Should You Rest?
July 21, 2022
An explanation of the 42% rule in Burnout
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