It's a choice
Old friends have a way of popping up exactly when you need them.
Tonight, an old friend told me “…we think we need to be perfect. We think that we need to be perfect for each other. But really, we just need to be quick to repair our mistakes when we make them. We don’t ever need to be perfect. The beauty is in being quick to make things right. Let go of pride. Let go of anger. So you can quickly and thoughtfully make things right.”
And I loved hearing that.
Today someone asked me if I believe in soulmates and I told her no. I don’t believe that fate and divine intervention bring two people together and those two people are perfect for each other and everything is effortless. I believe that sometimes you randomly meet someone and you see that they’re flawed and you decide that they’re still worth investing time and effort and love in. And you invest in them. It’s a choice.
Those things are on my mind tonight.
Thanks for the outpouring of love lately <3