Hiii

I have noticed a pattern. And the pattern is that “it’s all strategy” REAL.

You’re probably always (maybe not always) doing something “cause others are doing it” you don’t even know if it works for you or not.

Be it in business, studies, relationships etc (at least these are the areas I am applying mine).

Today, I’ll talk about why and how you should find what works for you and follow that part.

Using Social media as an example first.

Cause everyone is doing CapCut templates doesn’t mean it’s gonna work for you except it brings you joy and you want to build your audience around that.

A person could legit use a particular template and it goes viral , you might use it and get just 5 likes( Naso life be)Infact you’ll barely be getting 30 views.

It worked for them, NOT YOU.

Another example, this is mine.

Exams are approaching, everyone is reading plus some of us that reads at midnight cause “my roommate reads at midnight”

Do you assimilate at midnight??

My roommate used to read at night ( I guess she assimilates best around that time, I could wake up around 12 to 1am and she’d still be awake) I decided to join her too to avoid “ very unserious girl that has been ringing in my head. After like 3 times of trying it i realized that it was a flop. I don’t assimilate best at night but instead early hours of the morning. So what did I do? I would set my alarm to 3 or 4am at times 2am cause anything after 9am in the morning, my brain is closed ( e no dey hear anything again).When I am reading, she’s sleeping and vice versa.

Night works for her, morning works for me.

This happens a lot in the studies aspect for real.

In business, you could legit be advertising a certain way cause “ that’s the way to advertise” it might work for others, it might not work for you. You can be selling something you don’t like that still drains just cause “it brings in more money”

“MAKE it make sense Cinderella.”

Do what works for you.

Experiment, review, reflect

Know your patterns, notice them

It’s not about who started first, it’s about who started first.

Break the bad ones, study the good ones and have a good life.