You’ve probably heard of the myth “the more you chase, the more it runs from you” well it’s true, when you chase sooo much it get farther from you ( whatever it may be) job, friendship, validation, relationship and moreee. Let me give you an example

“I for one used to chase a lot like a lot (I still do) lol ( I chase money) but I have boundaries. Friendships, validation, money etc but let me lay more emphasis on the friendship part.
Every friendship that I wanted to be a part of badly or anyone that I wanted to be friends with soooo bad ends up crashing and I mean EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM, none made it out alive and that’s cause I chased it too much and when I eventually got it, I didn’t know how to act cause I was tooo happy 😊.”
I would literally chase having a bf or even just a guy asking me out 2 years ago and guess what NOTHING CAME, NO ONE DID.

Same with happiness, the more you chase, the more you feel empty and unhappy and that’s cause you’ve put all your energy into “I must achieve this” Yes, you must BUT have boundaries :)
The best way to get an approval is to not need it ~ Hugh Macleod



Stop seeking validation and see how you get more attention for whatever it is you wanted to get validation for and who knows? Maybe even better.
STOP CHASING instead ATTRACT
I hope this inspires you to stop chasing too much and instead work towards it cause you’ll surely get what’s yours .❤️

Cheers to new beginnings 🥂